The underlying structure of anything determines its outcome.
In our personal lives that means that if we have undesired outcomes there is something in the structure of our thinking that is not in touch with reality.
Let’s uncover what that is and realign you with reality, which is the very best starting point for creating your life as if it where a piece of art.
Professional athletes competing to be the very best in the whole freaking world can’t afford to use methods that do not bring them closer to their goal. That’s why watching the Olympics is a great way of studying the creative process. Athletes are master structuralists.
> 6 minutes reading time > It doesn’t matter? But surely I need to think well of myself in order to pull off this life-thing? Loving others requires having loving thoughts towards myself, doesn’t it?And I need to belief I can, have confidence in myself, in order to build that Lees verder…
Pro’s and cons. We weigh them. And then we decide. That’s how decision making works, right? If it is, then how come it sometimes takes so long, costs us so much head space and plagues us with doubt, even after we made the decision? Here’s why: we are not very Lees verder…
We have this odd contrast in speaking about the changes we can’t quite manage to bring about. “I understand it with my head but I can’t feel it.” Or “rationally, yes, this is true, but emotionally, I am not there yet.” Clients bring in this seeming contrast quite often into Lees verder…
Am I doing the right thing with my life?Am I using my full potential?Why can’t I make this big thing happen which I know I should be doing? Summer holidays and the strangeness of these corona times can bring up questions like these for many people. For some resulting in Lees verder…